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Raising Big Feelers - From Chaos to Calm

2026-04-14 18:30:00 2026-04-14 20:00:00 America/Los_Angeles Raising Big Feelers - From Chaos to Calm Branch - City Centre - City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Tuesday, April 14
6:30pm - 8:00pm

Branch - City Centre

City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Does your child’s big emotions often leave you feeling "underwater"?.

Join Destinee Kreil—Clinical Director of Strong River Counselling and Expressive Play Therapist—for an engaging workshop designed for parents and caregivers of children aged 3–12. Learn the neurobiology behind meltdowns and leave with a practical "pocket toolkit" of regulation strategies to move your home from survival mode to calm.  

We’ve all been there: the intense after-school meltdowns, the evening irritability, and the feeling that you’re constantly reacting to your child’s behavior instead of understanding it.

Specifically designed for parents and caregivers of children aged 3–12, this session provides a clear look at the science of childhood emotions. Destinee Kreil will guide you through how the nervous system works to help you understand why "Big Feelers" struggle with regulation—and how you can support them when they are overwhelmed at any point in the day.

In this workshop, you will learn:

  • The Science of Big Feelings: What is actually happening in your child's brain and body when they lose control.
  • Co-Regulation Strategies: Practical ways to stay calm and grounded so you can help your child de-escalate.
  • Effective Communication: What to say during an emotional outburst to help your child feel safe and understood.
  • Emotional Regulation Coping Skills: Proactive tools to help your child manage "end-of-the-day" exhaustion and handle big emotions before they escalate.
  • Clinical Q&A: An opportunity to ask specific questions and receive professional insight into navigating emotional dysregulation at home.

Move away from reactive discipline and leave with evidence-based tools to lead your home with more confidence and more calm.

Professional Bio:

Destinee Kreil, MCP, RCC 

Clinical Director & Registered Clinical Counsellor

Destinee Kreil is a Registered Clinical Counsellor, an Expressive Play Therapist, and the Clinical Director of Strong River Counselling in Coquitlam. She specializes in childhood mental health and emotional dysregulation, bringing extensive experience to helping families navigate the complexities of "Big Feelings."

Destinee is deeply passionate about supporting parents and caregivers, blending her clinical expertise in neurobiology with specialized training in Emotion-Focused Family Therapy (EFFT) and expressive, play-based techniques. Her approach focuses on nervous system regulation and attachment, providing families with practical tools to move toward a "connection-first" model that honors the unique needs of children aged 3–12. As a local resident, she is dedicated to building a more resilient, regulated community—one family at a time.

AGE GROUP: | Adults |

EVENT TYPE: | Education & Learning |

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Branch - City Centre

Phone: 604-554-7323

Hours
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Mon, Sep 21 9:00AM to 9:00PM
Tue, Sep 22 9:00AM to 9:00PM
Wed, Sep 23 9:00AM to 9:00PM
Thu, Sep 24 9:00AM to 9:00PM
Fri, Sep 25 9:00AM to 5:00PM
Sat, Sep 26 10:00AM to 5:00PM
Sun, Sep 27 10:00AM to 5:00PM

About the library

The City Centre branch offers:

  • Free wi-fi access, no password required
  • Meeting and study rooms
  • Public computer stations
  • Printing, faxing, scanning, and photocopying
  • Silent study room
  • A Discovery Lab showcasing eResources and lendable technology

Upcoming events

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Mon, Sep 21, 10:30am - 11:00am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Mon, Sep 21, 11:00am - 11:30am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Mon, Sep 21, 12:00pm - 1:00pm
City Centre Discovery Lab

Mon, Sep 21, 1:30pm - 3:00pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Tue, Sep 22, 9:30am - 12:00pm
City Centre Room 127

Tue, Sep 22, 10:30am - 11:00am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Tue, Sep 22, 11:00am - 11:30am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Tue, Sep 22, 12:00pm - 1:00pm
City Centre Discovery Lab

Tue, Sep 22, 6:30pm - 8:00pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Wed, Sep 23, 10:00am - 1:00pm
City Centre Room 127

Wed, Sep 23, 10:00am - 11:30am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Wed, Sep 23, 6:00pm - 6:30pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Wed, Sep 23, 6:30pm - 8:00pm
City Centre Room 127

Thu, Sep 24, 10:30am - 11:00am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Thu, Sep 24, 11:30am - 12:00pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Fri, Sep 25, 10:30am - 11:30am
City Centre Discovery Lab

Fri, Sep 25, 1:30pm - 3:00pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Sat, Sep 26, 10:30am - 12:30pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Sun, Sep 27, 10:30am - 11:00am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Mon, Sep 28, 10:30am - 11:00am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Mon, Sep 28, 11:00am - 11:30am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Mon, Sep 28, 1:30pm - 3:00pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Tue, Sep 29, 9:30am - 12:00pm
City Centre Room 127

Tue, Sep 29, 10:30am - 11:00am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Tue, Sep 29, 11:00am - 11:30am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

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Tue, Sep 29, 3:15pm - 4:00pm

Thu, Oct 01, 10:00am - 11:00am
City Centre Discovery Lab

Thu, Oct 01, 10:00am - 11:30am
City Centre Room 127
This event is full

Thu, Oct 01, 10:30am - 11:00am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Thu, Oct 01, 11:30am - 12:00pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Sat, Oct 03, 11:30am - 1:00pm
City Centre Room 127

Sat, Oct 03, 1:00pm - 4:00pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Sun, Oct 04, 10:30am - 11:00am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Mon, Oct 05, 10:30am - 11:00am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Mon, Oct 05, 11:00am - 11:30am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Mon, Oct 05, 1:00pm - 2:00pm
City Centre Board Room

Mon, Oct 05, 1:30pm - 3:00pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Tue, Oct 06, 9:30am - 12:00pm
City Centre Room 127

Tue, Oct 06, 10:30am - 11:00am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Tue, Oct 06, 11:00am - 11:30am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Tue, Oct 06, 6:30pm - 8:00pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Wed, Oct 07, 9:00am - 3:00pm
City Centre Room 127

Wed, Oct 07, 10:00am - 11:30am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Wed, Oct 07, 6:00pm - 6:30pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Wed, Oct 07, 6:30pm - 8:00pm
City Centre Room 127

Thu, Oct 08, 10:30am - 11:00am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Thu, Oct 08, 11:30am - 12:00pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Thu, Oct 08, 4:00pm - 6:00pm
City Centre Room 137

Sun, Oct 11, 10:30am - 11:00am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Mon, Oct 12, 10:30am - 11:00am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Tue, Oct 13, 9:30am - 12:00pm
City Centre Room 127

Tue, Oct 13, 10:30am - 11:00am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Tue, Oct 13, 11:00am - 11:30am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Tue, Oct 13, 6:30pm - 8:00pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Wed, Oct 14, 10:00am - 11:30am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Wed, Oct 14, 10:00am - 1:00pm
City Centre Room 127

Wed, Oct 14, 6:00pm - 6:30pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Thu, Oct 15, 10:30am - 11:00am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Thu, Oct 15, 11:30am - 12:00pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Thu, Oct 15, 2:30pm - 4:30pm
City Centre Room 127

Sat, Oct 17, 1:30pm - 3:00pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Sat, Oct 17, 2:00pm - 3:00pm
City Centre Room 127

Sun, Oct 18, 10:30am - 11:00am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Mon, Oct 19, 10:30am - 11:00am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Mon, Oct 19, 11:00am - 11:30am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Mon, Oct 19, 1:30pm - 3:00pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Mon, Oct 19, 6:30pm - 8:00pm
City Centre Room 127

Tue, Oct 20, 10:30am - 11:00am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Tue, Oct 20, 11:00am - 11:30am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Tue, Oct 20, 6:30pm - 8:00pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Wed, Oct 21, 10:00am - 11:30am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Wed, Oct 21, 10:00am - 11:30am
City Centre Room 127

Wed, Oct 21, 6:00pm - 6:30pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Wed, Oct 21, 6:30pm - 8:00pm
City Centre Room 127