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Raising Big Feelers - From Chaos to Calm

2026-04-14 18:30:00 2026-04-14 20:00:00 America/Los_Angeles Raising Big Feelers - From Chaos to Calm Branch - City Centre - City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Tuesday, April 14
6:30pm - 8:00pm

Branch - City Centre

City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Does your child’s big emotions often leave you feeling "underwater"?.

Join Destinee Kreil—Clinical Director of Strong River Counselling and Expressive Play Therapist—for an engaging workshop designed for parents and caregivers of children aged 3–12. Learn the neurobiology behind meltdowns and leave with a practical "pocket toolkit" of regulation strategies to move your home from survival mode to calm.  

We’ve all been there: the intense after-school meltdowns, the evening irritability, and the feeling that you’re constantly reacting to your child’s behavior instead of understanding it.

Specifically designed for parents and caregivers of children aged 3–12, this session provides a clear look at the science of childhood emotions. Destinee Kreil will guide you through how the nervous system works to help you understand why "Big Feelers" struggle with regulation—and how you can support them when they are overwhelmed at any point in the day.

In this workshop, you will learn:

  • The Science of Big Feelings: What is actually happening in your child's brain and body when they lose control.
  • Co-Regulation Strategies: Practical ways to stay calm and grounded so you can help your child de-escalate.
  • Effective Communication: What to say during an emotional outburst to help your child feel safe and understood.
  • Emotional Regulation Coping Skills: Proactive tools to help your child manage "end-of-the-day" exhaustion and handle big emotions before they escalate.
  • Clinical Q&A: An opportunity to ask specific questions and receive professional insight into navigating emotional dysregulation at home.

Move away from reactive discipline and leave with evidence-based tools to lead your home with more confidence and more calm.

Professional Bio:

Destinee Kreil, MCP, RCC 

Clinical Director & Registered Clinical Counsellor

Destinee Kreil is a Registered Clinical Counsellor, an Expressive Play Therapist, and the Clinical Director of Strong River Counselling in Coquitlam. She specializes in childhood mental health and emotional dysregulation, bringing extensive experience to helping families navigate the complexities of "Big Feelings."

Destinee is deeply passionate about supporting parents and caregivers, blending her clinical expertise in neurobiology with specialized training in Emotion-Focused Family Therapy (EFFT) and expressive, play-based techniques. Her approach focuses on nervous system regulation and attachment, providing families with practical tools to move toward a "connection-first" model that honors the unique needs of children aged 3–12. As a local resident, she is dedicated to building a more resilient, regulated community—one family at a time.

AGE GROUP: | Adults |

EVENT TYPE: | Education & Learning |

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Branch - City Centre

Phone: 604-554-7323

Hours
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Mon, Aug 03 10:00AM to 5:00PM
Tue, Aug 04 9:00AM to 9:00PM
Wed, Aug 05 9:00AM to 9:00PM
Thu, Aug 06 9:00AM to 9:00PM
Fri, Aug 07 9:00AM to 5:00PM
Sat, Aug 08 10:00AM to 5:00PM
Sun, Aug 09 10:00AM to 5:00PM

About the library

The City Centre branch offers:

  • Free wi-fi access, no password required
  • Meeting and study rooms
  • Public computer stations
  • Printing, faxing, scanning, and photocopying
  • Silent study room
  • A Discovery Lab showcasing eResources and lendable technology

Upcoming events

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Fri, Aug 07, 10:30am - 11:30am
City Centre Discovery Lab

Sat, Aug 08, 1:30pm - 3:30pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Sun, Aug 09, 10:30am - 11:00am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Sun, Aug 09, 1:30pm - 3:30pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Mon, Aug 10, 10:30am - 11:00am
City Centre Room 137

Mon, Aug 10, 12:00pm - 1:00pm
City Centre Discovery Lab

Mon, Aug 10, 1:00pm - 2:00pm
City Centre Board Room

Mon, Aug 10, 1:30pm - 3:00pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Mon, Aug 10, 6:30pm - 8:00pm
City Centre Room 127

Tue, Aug 11, 10:30am - 11:00am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Tue, Aug 11, 11:00am - 11:30am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Tue, Aug 11, 12:00pm - 1:00pm
City Centre Discovery Lab

Tue, Aug 11, 2:00pm - 3:00pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137
This event is full

Wed, Aug 12, 12:00pm - 1:00pm
City Centre Discovery Lab

Wed, Aug 12, 2:00pm - 3:00pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Wed, Aug 12, 6:00pm - 6:30pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Thu, Aug 13, 10:30am - 11:00am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Thu, Aug 13, 12:00pm - 1:00pm
City Centre Discovery Lab

Thu, Aug 13, 2:00pm - 3:30pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Thu, Aug 13, 6:00pm - 7:00pm
City Centre Room 127

Fri, Aug 14, 10:30am - 11:30am
City Centre Discovery Lab

Sat, Aug 15, 1:30pm - 3:00pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Sun, Aug 16, 10:30am - 11:00am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Sun, Aug 16, 1:00pm - 3:00pm
City Centre Room 127

Sun, Aug 16, 1:30pm - 3:30pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Mon, Aug 17, 12:00pm - 1:00pm
City Centre Discovery Lab

Mon, Aug 17, 1:00pm - 4:00pm
City Centre Room 127

Mon, Aug 17, 1:30pm - 3:00pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Tue, Aug 18, 10:30am - 11:00am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Tue, Aug 18, 11:00am - 11:30am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Tue, Aug 18, 12:00pm - 1:00pm
City Centre Discovery Lab

Tue, Aug 18, 1:00pm - 4:00pm
City Centre Room 127

Cancelled
Tue, Aug 18, 1:30pm - 2:15pm

Tue, Aug 18, 6:00pm - 8:00pm
City Centre Board Room
This event is full

Wed, Aug 19, 12:00pm - 1:00pm
City Centre Discovery Lab

Wed, Aug 19, 1:00pm - 4:00pm
City Centre Room 127

Wed, Aug 19, 6:00pm - 6:30pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Wed, Aug 19, 6:30pm - 8:00pm
City Centre Room 127

Thu, Aug 20, 10:30am - 11:00am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Thu, Aug 20, 12:00pm - 1:00pm
City Centre Discovery Lab

Thu, Aug 20, 1:00pm - 4:00pm
City Centre Room 127

Thu, Aug 20, 2:00pm - 3:30pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Fri, Aug 21, 10:30am - 11:30am
City Centre Discovery Lab

Fri, Aug 21, 1:00pm - 4:00pm
City Centre Room 127

Sun, Aug 23, 10:30am - 11:00am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Sun, Aug 23, 1:30pm - 3:30pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Mon, Aug 24, 10:30am - 11:00am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Mon, Aug 24, 11:00am - 11:30am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Mon, Aug 24, 12:00pm - 1:00pm
City Centre Discovery Lab

Mon, Aug 24, 1:30pm - 3:00pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Tue, Aug 25, 10:30am - 11:00am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Tue, Aug 25, 11:00am - 11:30am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Tue, Aug 25, 12:00pm - 1:00pm
City Centre Discovery Lab

Wed, Aug 26, 12:00pm - 1:00pm
City Centre Discovery Lab

Wed, Aug 26, 6:00pm - 6:30pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Thu, Aug 27, 10:30am - 11:00am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Thu, Aug 27, 12:00pm - 1:00pm
City Centre Discovery Lab

Thu, Aug 27, 2:00pm - 3:30pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Fri, Aug 28, 10:30am - 11:30am
City Centre Discovery Lab

Sun, Aug 30, 1:30pm - 3:30pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Mon, Aug 31, 12:00pm - 1:00pm
City Centre Discovery Lab

Mon, Aug 31, 1:30pm - 3:00pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Tue, Sep 01, 12:00pm - 1:00pm
City Centre Discovery Lab

Cancelled
Tue, Sep 01, 1:30pm - 2:15pm

Wed, Sep 02, 12:00pm - 1:00pm
City Centre Discovery Lab

Wed, Sep 02, 5:30pm - 6:30pm
City Centre Discovery Lab

Thu, Sep 03, 10:00am - 11:30am
City Centre Room 127
This event is full

Thu, Sep 03, 12:00pm - 1:00pm
City Centre Discovery Lab

Thu, Sep 03, 2:00pm - 3:30pm
City Centre Combined 136 & 137

Fri, Sep 04, 10:30am - 11:30am
City Centre Discovery Lab

Sun, Sep 06, 10:30am - 11:00am
City Centre Combined 136 & 137